Through our entire life, we always have friends on one corner talking bad about friends the other corner, friends that talk bad about others behind their back, friends that point out their negativity..and i, always end up the referee.
It's funny how 2 people who looks like friends from the outside actually hates each others guts from the inside..people are phony, two face, liar cheat and steal..These few days, i have been hearing people talking about other peoples, and these few peoples are consider friends to each other, it's like suddenly i realized that we are so negative..I'm not going to say out names or anything, don't want to create more chaos than it is through this post. I'm not excluding myself at all, i too, have talk bad about other people behind their back, just never realize how bad it sounds till now..like i said, I'm the referee, I'm caught in the middle, left side ear hears this shit and that, right side ear hear that shit and this..in the end, i don't know whose real and whose fake..in the end, i just node my head..what am i supposed to say?
But i believed that every friends we meet are or at least a lesson partner in our life..they bring something in our life..but i wonder why can't real friends stay forever you know, the real ones..those are the one that take you for who you are, those are the one that doesn't use you just to get to something..those friends..i know nothing lasts forever, but is it so difficult just to at least able to keep friendships together? Friends that to always hang out with are now strangers, friends that use to go school with are now in different places, friends that i used to able to smile with are now a totally different persons..friendship is crazy, friends comes and go..One day you think you have found another long lasting friendship with this person..BANG!! reality bites you where it hurts.
+I get wot u mean, I've been caught in the middle all too many times, well, it happens. But as we grow older, it lessens, people do grow up, it's just a matter of time, sometimes it takes too long, but, nth we can do rite? I myself am immature in some aspects..
ReplyDelete+"why can't real friends stay forever you know, the real ones..that take you for who you are, that doesn't use you just to get to something.."..well, honestly, such friends doesn't exist, tell me that you don't need friends, that u r that kinda friends, let me elaborate on this, doesn't use her to get something har? Well, we all need each other to get something, such as to get support, encouragement, a shoulder to cry on, we need friends to accompany us, to talk to us, to listen to us. That's wot friends are for, so yea, nobody really wants anybody for no purpose, seriously, it took me awhile to realize that this is reality, but it doesn't mean we're using each other, it simply is the fundamentals of life.
+"Friends that always hang out with are now strangers, friends that use to go school with are now in different places, friends that i used to able to smile with are now a totally different persons.."..."friendship is crazy, friends comes and go"..this I couldn't agree more, I read in the newspaper about a story of a man, who no longer close to his best friend, the one he played with, grew up with, does evrythg wif, reasons are bcoz of time, as time passes, evrythg change, he/she change, you change, hence, friendship changes to, but 2 him, wot matters more is the time he spent wif his frenz, even thou they're not on the same page anymore, he will alwiz be in his heart, that's how much he cherish his frienship, I do the same 4 my frenz, u can't stop changing, for it's the only thing that is consistent, when u learn 2 accept thgs the way it is, u'll feel better knowing that deep down, wot's in the heart nvr does change, only wot seems 2 be, duno if u understand, well, that's how I alwiz felt.^6
see.this is why i love the way u think n see things..unbelievable..
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